He's just not that into you...

So a while back I read the book, "He's just not that into you". I was on this kick of learning about men back then, this is around the same time that I read "On the DL". Yesterday, in have a conversation with my confidant, I at some point decided that somebody "just wasn't that into me" based mostly on a lack of contact.

It's funny how you can brainwash yourself with a book and find yourself slowly morphing into a Charlotte-like, everything can be wonderful if I just follow the rules, type of girl. I was really almost there but unfortunately I know that rule books, while they are helpful, don't know everything and they aren't necessarily always applicable to my real life and while I don't believe that I should waste my time on someone who just not that into me, I still am likely to.