Why is it?

Why is it that when people used to ask me to do things socially I used to be honored but now I take it as a threat? When I think about it, I came up with some reasons and though I really should hurry up and stop thinking this way. It's just the moment.

1. People are trying to put things on my already jam packed and fully neglected agenda
2. People suck, when you start dealing with people, here comes the drama.
3. Being a person takes work, ponder that one a second and think of what you're like when you first wake up, are on your way to sleep, or have not eaten. That's who you really are.
4. Okay I'm done being negative. One good thing about being socially desired is that it means that people want you around. How can that not feel good?